just said goodbye to a friend

[caddisgeek]

I had my cat put down today, she was 12 and had diabetes, I just buried her then. I dunno, I just felt like telling someone

RIP Spencer

[similost]

You have no idea how I feel for you Cadd.... I look at my cat every day, and I know her time is limited more than mine.. I told my wife last week I can't imagine the day she isn't with us...

I hope you get to feeling better... I know it is one hell of a hole in the heart...

I've lost several cats that were my best friends... It's painful...

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[dragon]

We put down our 2 black labs in back to back years. It hurts. Sorry about your loss.

[ozmoid]

Quite a few of us own, and have lost treasured pets. I know just how you feel. :pawprint:

[jhal]

My heart goes out to you. I lost a cat that I had since 1993 a few months ago so I know how you feel. May your old friend rest in piece.

[Sportlark64]

Sorry to hear about this folks . At least you were able to give them peace at the end . Take solice in that . It's never easy but give them the love they deserve and remember the good times . And near the end don't let them suffer .
We lost our dog Cher in 04' she was a 100 lb . Border Collie crossed with Horse and the Comic Relief of the pack . That's when we rescued Bert 3 weeks later . He was severley abused now he's the Clown/Chew Toy for whatever pup we bring home .
After some healing go find yourselves another pup/cat that may be in a shelter and his days are numbered and give him a loving home . Not a replacement , that can't be done but you can give another animal a chance at a great life !
Take care ,
Steve

[Danger Boy]

sorry you had to put your buddy Spencer down.. I did that a few years ago to my wonderful cat Nikki. She developed liver problems.

[Unican_Eric]

My condolences on your loss. I have a thread in here as well for my loss when Troubles left us. It hurts, hurts allot.:sigh:

[PoppaSteve]

:tears:It always hurts to lose a good friend, either two or four legged. Remember the fun you had together, and be comforted that your friend is no longer feeling any pain.

[onepixel]

Condolences to you Caddis. I know hard that can be. We had to say goodbye to Rocky our Springer Spaniel about a month ago after 15 years with our family. Spencer is probably terrorizing Rocky now. He was afraid of nothing except cats.

Take care,
Carl

[BajaGringo]

So, so, so sorry pal. I have had to say goodbye to pets along the way in life. Each one with their own personality and way that they found to so tightly weave themselves into our lives. Our pets love us unconditionally and each in their own special way. I just keep telling myself that they will all be waiting for me along with my all of loved ones the last time I close my eyes on this earth.

Thanks so much for sharing and allowing us to reach out with you. Believe me that we do understand. You will always remember her and she was so lucky to have you to take care of her. Sending you a big hug and our condolences from Baja...

[Rob Babcock]

I had my cat put down today, she was 12 and had diabetes, I just buried her then. I dunno, I just felt like telling someone

RIP Spencer


A good pet can really get under your skin, Caddisgeek. I'm sorry for your loss.

[Celt]

Sorry to hear of that Caddisgeek. Our pets are extensions of our families and it always hurts when you lose one of them. :(
My condolences.

[Sandy G]

I lost Sassy back in the summer, & it still hurts. You're not alone in hurting for a lost pet...

[kcollins4]

Spencer is chasing bugs and birds in a place that's never cold or wet. Sorry to hear about your buddy.

[gearhound]

Sorry to hear about your loss.
Burying a great pet is like burying family.


Steve

[SPL db]

So sorry to hear of this... it's never easy, my condolences! :(

Scott

[HeadKnight]

I lost one of my cats the day after Christmas. She was a Manx and lived 14 years. I will miss that little friend for some time to come.

[Argyle]

Sorry to hear of your loss. It seems like there are many pet owners on this board, who certainly seem to recognize pets as an important part of any family. Tell us, we understand.

The passing of Mona, our family dog, a few years ago can still be upsetting when I think about it.

Hang in there.

[75Center]

Sorry to hear of your loss. I've lost one of the Yorkies in my aviator, the second Yorkie is now on "dementia" medication, so I know my day is coming to make that very difficult decision.

I always believe when you take good care of a pet, they will send you a new one when the time is right. Keep your eyes open, your cat friend will send you a needy kitty who needs love.

Take care -

[ZebraBlvd]

My sincerest condolences on your loss. Sometimes I wish my extended family would outlast me on this blue marble, just to save me from this painful heartache.

[BroonsBane]

It's such a hard thing to do, I feel for you. Last August I had to put down our 19 year old cat The Outlaw Josey Wales (Josey for short). He was such a cool cat and we (even the dogs) miss him. We have lots of great memories of him as I'm sure you have of Spencer and when the pain dulls they will make you smile :thmbsp: :pawprint:

[chewy]

like others, my feelings go out to you. put down a sheltie we had for 12 years a year ago. it still hurts....

[BroonsBane]

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

[jim w.]

my your beloved cat rest in peace!!
keep her/him in your heart!
its like losing a real family member.
i lost my cat in a house fire last year
but i have his pic on my computer screen as a back ground

[wineslob]

I know exactly how you feel.:tears: I lost my "garden" cat last month. She was a foundling Manx (long story/died of pneumonia at 8 yrs) who loved to hang out with me in our garden. She had a horrible meow, more of a croak than anything else. I miss hearing her. I never thought I would feel like this about a pet.
Her, like yours, will always be in my memories.

[toxcrusadr]

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

:tears::pity:

All the best Caddis.

[caddisgeek]

Thanks everyone for your kind words, the kids are doing OK but our staffie Daisy (who looked up to spencer as top dog of the yard) is just starting to work it out. About 8 years ago we lost our border collie Zac to a brain tumor (he was our kid before kids, and we are still feeling his loss, but only happy memories now). He and Spencer were best buddies and she took it pretty hard. When the times right we may have to get a new little pal for Daisy.

Cheers
Steve

[kbs48]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss,my tabby Henry is special to me also.He even rode in the cab of the u-haul 4000 mi from Portland to Florida.

[Ultra-Hog]

You are among friends that do understand. I am sure that there are lots of good times to remember. And now, even the not so good times can make for some good memories. The pain will fade and the sorrow will diminish somewhat, but the memories will last a lifetime.

My condolences to you and yours.

[ehoove]

Sorry for your loss.
Regards,
Jim

[pioneervato]

I am sorry for your loss. They become family so quickly and losing them is very hard. Hope your sorrow eases quickly.

[thunderroad]

My condolences on your loss! Our kaynine and feline companions become part of our family and their loss is felt just as accutely as the loss of close family members. The only thing I can think is that God must have a reason for them to have a so much shorter life than us and maybe that is so we have the opportunity to know more than one. You never get over the loss, you just get used to living with it. But I'm so glad to have had the opportunity to know them! Again, my condolences on your loss.

[Twenty20Man]

my sincere condolences..our pets are our dearest friends..unconditional love on the highest level...

RIP Spencer

[SpeakerLabFan]

Sorry to hear of your loss, my condolences.

[shelby1420]

To loose a friend, any friend -- sucks!! Sorry for you loss!!

[clydeselsor]

I am truly sorry....

[soundweasel]

I'm so sorry for your loss! As many on AK know, I'm a real hardass about many things, but I'm a softie when it comes to animals, particularly household pets. I can understand the pain you're feeling. :sigh:

I still miss Kato (see my avatar), and I know our other cat Buster is getting on in years (18 now) and that he won't be with us forever. I just hope some other deserving critter enters your life and benefits from your kindness for many years to come. I'm convinced it's why we're put on earth. :yes:

[dread31]

Never had a cat, but I've lost several dogs, and a snapping turtle.
I hope to see them on the other side. Well, maybe not the turtle,
he was a mean SOB.

Well, I'm sorry to hear of Spencers passing.
Sounds like he was truly loved.

Dave

[caddisgeek]

I hope to see them on the other side. Well, maybe not the turtle,
he was a mean SOB.


Dave

:lmao:

[jeffn]

Sorry to hear that Caddisgeek.

Just changed my pc wallpaper to a photo of my old cat that died a few years ago in remembrance and sympathy for all those old cats.

Namaste.

[Fisherdude]

I understand what you're feeling. I lost my orange tabby, Amos, at 18. I still think about him. The void in your family will be filled again. Soon! It's kind of neat how that always happens!:yes:

[mulester7]

.....God Bless And Comfort You, Caddisgeek....you fulfilled your ultimate responsibility to your precious friend and companion when she desperately needed you to do so....I faced the same situation with my poodle Fancy only three months ago, and know exactly how you feel this day....the passing of a little time will ease your mind and bring things into perspective....I applaud you for rising to the occassion.....

[vinyldavid]

my sincerest condolences to you, Caddisgeek. I don't think I can say anything more than what's been said.

[Zekeman]

Condolences.

Ours died in October at 17...Very sad day.

We got a kitten in January as a buddy to the brother left behind. The new cat is absolutely hilarious...bounces off the walls and has the personality to boot!

[Holst]

I just now saw this threat. I'm sorry to hear about your loss, and yours too Zekeman.

JJ