Remember, this is NJ we're talking about. I've driven all over this Country, as well as in the UK and European countries. There's something about this state that make people turn their brains off when getting into a car or on a motorbike.
Try the eastern 'burbs of Detroit. Road manners, and attention span during driving, are non-existent. Worst are the rednecks in their manly pickup trucks who barge their way through everything, tailgating and flipping off everyone in their path. Must be making up for their deficiencies elsewhere. I-696 is also a pain to drive on; if you're not doing 80, you're going to get run over, or cut off and brake-checked. On the western end, I've hit 90-95 in the left lane and not kept up with traffic in front of or alongside me.
Oh hell yes. I have absolute zero patience for people who don't give a crap about anyone but themselves. Texting while driving all over the road, sitting in the left lane pacing the traffic in the right lane, not paying attention at lights and having it change while everyone behind them misses the light, the list goes on and on.
Same here. And not to pick on the elderly, but some of them should not be out driving. I've seen plenty of them driving unaware of the situations around them (including some who pull out right in front of me without even seeing me), but a couple of times a year, I'll see some poor old lady do something damn near deadly. Three miles up the road, this old lady was seemingly disoriented, then she attempted to make a left turn. She pulled right up to the bumper of the car that was turning left in front of her, from the opposite direction!
I think what bothers me most (which I have no patience for) is that general inattention so many give to driving! We're in a nearly two ton vehicle, hurtling it often at high speeds. It's a privilege (not a right) to drive a car, truck or motorcycle, and we need to be responsible when doing so.
I read something decades ago which stuck with me, from a professional limo driver: "Always leave yourself an out." He would drive so that as often as he could, he'd have a lane or shoulder open next to him to escape anything another driver might do. I take that up a notch--I try to assume that driver next to me, or that driver on a side road in front of me, may merge or turn into my path. I might not avoid something happening, but if I can change my speed and direction, I can probably keep it a lot less severe for all of us.
With a 16 year old who is just starting to drive (under permit), it worries me. She not only has to watch the traffic laws, she now has all of these distracted drivers and cocky aggressive drivers to contend with. Just more sensory overload that she is not used to. I'm not worried about what
she will do, but what others will do.
Around here most motorcycle accidents happen because the riders run out of talent before they run out of speed.
I've seen that a lot in our neighborhood newspapers lately. Bikers out at 1:30am, overdriving their abilities (and often impaired by pot or alcohol), crashing in the turns. I also blame inattentive drivers, the ones who are texting or just not paying attention to anything other than what's going on inside their cars. As I ride a bicycle, I'm very careful about watching for non-automobiles on the roads as I turn. Helping my fellow "brethren" I guess. Having said that, a friend of my ex's only had his motorcycle endorsement for a few days before he was killed by a car that turned into traffic, not seeing him.
That pretty much says it all ... I was just out hiking on a local rails to trails, and got buzzed pretty close by a couple bike riders who just flat out refused to single up when passing.
I get that all the time. I ride the local trails. The opposite direction, I'll see two couples, or a trio of riders, coming my way and more often than not, they barely want to move over and let me pass. I was nicer before. Now I just stand my ground. Or if I'm coming up behind a group, they occasionally don't bother moving over, or do it so late after I've warned them with the bell several times that it does me no good.
Worst I had was some dumb teenager, riding no-handed on the wrong side of the trail alongside his buddy, looking down and texting on his phone. I rang my bell repeatedly and he nearly crashed into me until he realized I was nearly on top of him. (I was ready to veer off, but I threw a hell of a scare into him, and unleashed a couple of carefully selected USDA choice cuss words to send him on his way.
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Seems common courtesy goes out the window on some of our local rail trails, along with inattention. As a rider (and infrequent walker/hiker), I am continuously looking around me. Maybe we're in the minority.