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In my opinion your both wrong to a point, but not necessarily way off the mark either. I'm her part time care giver so to speak as sometimes I need to take her to a doctor appointment or make sure she follows doctor's instructions, kind of watch her to a point, etc. My sister lives in Northern...

I hate to ask this, but poetry is something I just don't understand. I understand very little of this (I think) or rather not enough to really grasp it. Could you translate into English if so inclined?

Just the opposite, I love music and it's a part of me. I'm just trying to make it so I can listen to it. With my current situation I'm not allowed to for now and like I said, I have grown tired of worrying about the gear. By making tough choices (I should not have to make), I can make it so I am...

Well, it's also about putting my foot down for myself.

I've made a decision, it's time to get out of this hobby. I've grown tired of all the worry about the gear and such. I feel like I've come to worry about the gear more than just listening to the music so I've decided to keep the music I have of course, but only keep one receiver, one TT and one...

Well, the help I would seek is ways to deal with my sister when she is around and handle my mom at the same time to make sure she doesn't get sucked into the vortex. (Something tells me there is no way or ways to do it) As for my own depression, I can usually deal with it on my own as it rarely...

I've done that with other bullies, if you will and it does work. However, this is a very different situation where it's not just my life in the balance. Unlike my sister, I happen to care about my mom. Oh, yes, please see my "update" post. Sometimes doing almost nothing is doing something.

Why don't you go get a life and leave me alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! By the way, I still believe suicide is a viable option when all else fails and it comes in various forms. That's my personal belife.

I stick around because realistically my mom needs my help as my sister can not provide any help in any way, The frustrating part is the my mom lives in denial and the gets her in trouble. If I left my mom high and dry 1) I would not be any better than my sister and that is not the kind of person...

Update I've decided it's too much. F it! I tried and tried hard, but it's too much now. Something has to give so I'm giving up. My giving up will either move things to work out or result in my demise, I don't care which. My feeling is that I can't do anything about it so I'm not wasting what...

I don't let it happen, but then again I am forced to because of my mom. I'm the one helping her in many ways or trying to, but she is under such influence of my sister that every time I "man-up" as you say, it comes flying back at me and I end up taking the hit to prevent further trouble. Also...

Whatever I get diagnosed with will be the result of stress culminating over the years and these past few months and weeks, no doubt about it. I've heard of stress causing some very nasty permanent conditions and diseases, but I never paid close attention. The property manager is not talking...

Well, now there's a chance we may only be at the new place for a short time because it's not convienant for my sister. (She can't have a parking space in the underground tenant parking, although she may try to make my mom give up her space while she is out here. She can't have a TV where she...

That is precisely why the doctor can't see me until after some of the outside stressors are gone, He can't examine me or do anything until he can get me relaxed to a point. I have technics and tools, but sadly no way of using them or calming down without a safe place. Unfortunately, all the...

I here what your saying. The problem is that I can not afford a place of my own again at this time, but it is a goal I am trying to work towards as I have been caring for my mom for the last 2.5 years. For the purposes of immeadate retreat if you will, the roommate thing (I have done before just...

I don't know why, but this made me laugh a little. I may take you up on it, but right now I am overly busy trying to move and I have to take down my entire network which operates PCs, phones, etc. Saturday night and it won't be up until Monday morning.

Yes, I do have back issues and then some. Right now you could take a .38 shoot me in the back at close range and I would not feel it. That's how stiff my upper back is, but that's only the start. I'm in constant pain with my lower back as well now and hurts to sit for long periods. On top of...

Update Don’t know if I will survive this move. I’m scheduled (by force) to see a specialist July 3rd because I am very ill right now. This whole thing with being mere seconds away from homelessness and all the crap with my sister (and my mom’s enabling her) has taken a huge toll on me. I’m in...

Camcorder - around the early 90s. It was a Hitachi and not bad. Now I have a Panasonic that's a Mini DV Tape and it's loads better. Has a nice high-end lens on it. Cassette Player- Dear lord, it was one of those black portable models from Radio Shack back in the late 70s. I've had loads since...

I feel like I've done this a few times these past three weeks.

Interesting? I think not!

Wow man! That's awful. Yes, charter schools are fronts. I have had more experience with them than I care to. I was a victim, then prosecutor, then unfortunately, victim again in the end I guess. (DA dropped the ball...they got bribed).

I will be resolved, I can assure you. It's just a real pain in the middle of a very messy move. Thank you, I recognize the salutation, "blessed be".:yes:

Just so you know what kind of person my sister is, it looks like she tried to get into my credit union account on-line and now it's blocked. (Her way of checking up on me she thinks to make sure I'm paying my way, can you believe it?). So I have to go to the branch and try to explain things.

I think the store eats it knowing what I know of B&W policy.