Silence is not golden I had a death in the family one month after the 2010 fest. I get over these things because when I was going to university I worked in the summer in a hospital on the nursing staff (nurses were a fringe benefit):yes: It makes you like cold ice (no feelings) to death and health unless its in your family. To me my health problems are almost not registering in my head, I just live on when I can. Now I am 59 years old. I wish Dave would speak up and let us know what will be happening if anything. But I understand his silence and have to respect it. Best wishes for Dave.