No, I usually listen to music on the wharfedale and watch movies with JBL4430. Both at the same time the sound gets very confusing, after all they are very different speakers!
None of the above, your ears have to tell you. I just moved from 140 wpc to 200 wpc for my L200t3, and I like the improvement. But I'm also a separates guy. The only thing close on your list is the 2385.