See here...
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Good advice. I'm getting back into cycling for fun and fitness (instead of just commuting and such). I have the time and anything that gets me into shape and feeling the endorphins is good.
I wished her a happy birthday and good luck with impending surgery by text, kinda wished I hadn't, as I felt kinda low for a few days after (maybe unrelated). I'm more and more confident that having no contact with her whatsoever is the way to go, there's not much good that can come of it, and being 'nice' just makes me feel like a doormat, or like I'm hoping to open dialogue because I want her back. I miss her, but I don't want her back.
I've had friends run into her around town, and they say she looks/sounds miserable...who knows, not sure I care as she made her bed.
Getting used to feeling somewhat happy. It's weird to not be worried that her coming home from work is going to result in nasty words and a ruined evening. I just do my thing now, but there are still twinges of anxiety.