Let's circle back to the original question by the OP:
Yes, the calculation of 4-5 watts to average 80dB SPL at 4 meters with your EPI's while allowing 3dB of headroom seems to be about right. And if you are convinced that this is plenty of headroom, as you have mentioned several times, so be it.
I think most recommendations as regards headroom for transient peaks would stipulate 9dB as the minimum. Many would recommend 12-15dB, and some would say even higher.
To meet the 9dB minimum you need an amp capable of 16-20 watts before clipping. For 12dB, its 32-40 watts, and for 15dB its 64-80 watts. And of course it you just want to play it just a very bit louder than 80dB on occasion, you'll need to double all of these numbers!
But if you are happy with the performance of your existing amp with your existing speakers, use them and and be happy!