Keep in mind, that damping oils can be blended. One can take a lighter 10,000cSt viscosity, and blend it with a heavier cSt viscosity.
In regards to the Damping Oil-Fluid that was supplied with Jelco-AQ Arms.... The fluid was not that thick in my experiences.
In these instances, a lighter fluid may be more suitable, than a heavier one. And also keeo in mind, you're not looking to drown the damping trough. The differences in damping can occur with as little as one drop just beginning to "touch" the Paddle.
I would say in most instances, you won't need damping oil in a dual pivot arm like a jelco, unless you're running some really weird cartridge (Grado, or such)
The Unipivots may be more prone to acting funny with a larger number of cartridges. even though the particular cartridge may be said to work perfectly fine in other, similar mass arms. Mark